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Respect the other person's privacy and let your friend decide what to share.
Words you can use
Use a line as written if it fits. A specific detail in your own voice makes it stronger.
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What do you enjoy most about being around them?
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Do you feel comfortable being yourself when you talk?
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What would you hope happens next, if anything?
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Would you like advice, or would you rather I just listen?
Make the message personal
Respect the other person's privacy and let your friend decide what to share.
Before you send it, replace one general word with a real detail: a moment you remember, a quality you noticed, or the difference their action made. Read it aloud once. If it sounds unlike you, shorten it.
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